Getting back the person you love is like being in a running race. You are not there to lose to other people. You want to have a foolproof plan on how to win your ex back. You know that once they fall in love with other people, you'd find it harder to convince them that you are the one for them.
Before you run a race, you have to make sure that your body is conditioned for it. Likewise in getting your ex to love you again, you must make sure that you are prepared. There will be a lot of things that will test you along the way and you must be prepared to deal with them.
How can you do it? First, make sure that you don't feel bitter about the whole thing. So you have parted ways but it doesn't end there right? Think of it as a trial you have to go through. Once you get pass that problem and you'll get your ex back for sure, and your relationship would be stronger than ever.
Challenge Your Ex
People like things that don't need a lot of effort but this doesn't mean the same thing applies in a relationship. The more accessible you are and the more they know how much you want them back, the more they can put off loving you. In their mind they would think, Why not? I would probably still be loved tomorrow or the days after that."
Make them feel that you are a challenge to them, something that they cannot have, therefore they should want. Make them feel that if they won't make any moves to get you anytime soon, you'll fall in love with another and they will lose their chance.
The secret on how to win your ex back is challenge. Without it, things have a tendency to drift further away from each other.